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#but at least everyone knows it's toxic
heretherebedork · 1 year
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Having all of this happen so quickly and with so many flashbacks but not the taxi fear flashback is fascinating. Because I think a lot of this is Day's fear of the person he sees himself as in memories he has and how he can remember how he feels in those moments but it feels totally alien to him.
He loves Itt but he doesn't trust his own emotions and so he keeps fighting with his own feelings and that creates this dichotomy of how much he is remembering their relationship and his love but not remembering himself. And the fully clothed shower? Yeah. There's a lot going on as he slowly regains memories and bits and pieces of the person he became.
Right now, Day is in an inbetween, between who he was and who he became and who he is and that has turned him, in a lot of ways, into a monster. And he is awful and he is being awful on purpose because he looks at what he had, what he has, and he doesn't believe it because it doesn't make sense.
And the show isn't shying away from how awful he's being and how everyone else sees that and how the people around them are telling him he's wrong and are protecting Itt as much as he'll let them and it's an interesting examination of how far people will go for love even when it's actively hurting them.
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 3 months
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Swapping tips on how to be a bestie in the bath.
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anna-scribbles · 2 months
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h-how do you ever finish any of your work? genuine question because you seem to be productive despite your agreste syndrome and I need to learn your ways. but also how do you ever finish any of your work
unclear. last night i stayed up and finished a report worth 25% of my grade at about 5am, arrived on time for my 9am lecture, and spent about half of it zoned out while thinking about seventeen year old emilie agreste. and i was one of the most active participants in the class discussion
#in some ways it IS the move to go to grad school right out of undergrad#because your body can still sort of operate like a college kid#i’m on about 3ish hours of sleep rn and this morning it felt SO over but now i’ve eaten something and we’re so back#i also don’t really do caffeine. except sometimes i’ll go get one of those panera death lemonades#i might be able to snag a short nap before work#but anyway about seventeen year old emilie. i was thinking abt how she was in that movie solitude and adrien said she was seventeen#WAIT. NO. HE SAID SHE WAS SEVENTEEN IN THAT PHOTO ON HIS DESKTOP NOT IN THE MOVIE#well. okay whatever i’m gonna tell you what i was thinking about anyway#OKAY i’m back i just checked the wikipedia page and then i watched the end of gorizilla. to make sure i’m not lying. because i’m normal.#anyway i was thinking about the solitude film and how it’s super rare and old and obscure and whatever. and how apparently#emilie wrote it herself and andre produced it#and i’m thinking about how gabe was discovered by audrey and that’s how he got his start in the fashion industry#so now i’m like?? did gabe and emilie first meet on the set of solitude? because gabe was designing costumes or whatever?#and that’s how audrey found him? have people already thought about this??#also i just checked and it doesn’t say emilie’s last name in the credits and also it’s ‘graham films’ with the twin rings logo m#so i’m assuming she’s still emilie graham de vanily at that point#anyway it comes back to seventeen year old emilie because i started imagining seventeen year old runaway emilie having her new life in pari#after escaping her british nobility life#and the first thing she does is write and star in an original movie. of course.#and she meets this repressed bisexual punk upstart costume designer who is so the opposite of everyone she’s ever known#and he’s immediately so unhealthily obsessed with her. which she appreciates.#and then they proceed to have the most toxic doomed evil relationship of all time#also she gets cheated because once gabe gets money he represses himself SO hard that he is now exactly like all the people emilie grew up w#but at least he’s still obsessed with her#this is what i was thinking about during class today. i don’t know how i get anything done either.#ml#anna rambles#asks
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butwhatifidothis · 3 months
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It's been a few months since that whole thing with that Edelgang mod peddling genocide rhetoric, I wonder if they ever moved on from believing such horrific things and using such horrific rhetoric-
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...so the answer to that is no. They have not.
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sunflowerdales · 8 months
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I won't lie, I've been in fandom spaces long enough to have genuine worry about how the sudden popularity of this ship is gonna evolve into something nasty.
I can only hope the majority of people will be respectful to each other, mature, and not allow what is supposed to be a bit of fun turn into a space that sexualises abuse or have people be bigoted in any sort of way towards each other, etc.
But that takes a collective effort to try and prevent such a thing. Please please please respect each other, respect the actors, respect the devs, and let this community be welcoming, okay?
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feelingthedisaster · 6 months
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just two characters that are like chernobyl having a more healthy relationship than most of the ya romance books out there
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yooniesim · 10 months
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I know its 4 am and no ones gonna see this but man I'm having a great night. Getting that off my chest the other night really helped me i think, and everyone's kind responses really made me feel really loved, validated, and secure. As time goes on I learn more and more how to care for myself mentally and I feel like I'm getting better with doing that in online spaces lately too. Figuring out how to curate my online space and how to be more calm and measured with my emotions & how/when I speak to people here has helped me so much, and having awesome supportive friends really did too. To the people on here and in Sutopia, that always leave me nice comments and asks and kind messages, I can't thank you enough. Especially considering where my mental health has been lately. You guys are simply amazing and help revive my love of simblr and this game. Every bit of love I see here wipes away the more vile & toxic words like they're nothing. It makes me wanna post more and create more cc to share with you guys and hopefully make you happy too. I can't promise I won't have bad days still of course but it really just warms my heart. Thank you 💜
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cinnamon-phrog · 3 months
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A mutual reblogged a pr*ship post and their dni is now neutral. Unfallowed. Bolcked.
#see if i joke i don't CHOKE. on my tears. because this just keeps happening#i'm so scared to interact with mutuals for this exact reason#most i've made have either left me. became toxic over minor differences or become a degenerate.#which is sad because i really enjoyed this friend and all those friends before they or i cut ties#but this kind of shit is unforgivable to me. i've had bad experiences with a friend turning out to be a pr*shipper#everyone flocked to me to fix their traumas but i had talked to that person often. it hurt a lot. they harassed people who harassed them#i was only 15. and i was threatened but what the hell is a sheltered kid SUPPOSED to do back. i wasn't taught shit#people in their fucking 20's were trauma dumping to me in dms and sadly still go to me when they catch wind of this person-#'i need support' you need to get offline. please. just block and ignore. i'm tired.#i should not have had to be babysitting adults and older teens when i didn't know what half those words were at the time.#months ago i did something stupid when i was at my limit and mirrored the pettiness i saw. i was told i would drive someone to suicide.#over saying the person was a bit mean and bringing up some posts i thought they made#i did apologise when i got it wrong. but got threatened with the person possibly killing themselves in my inbox.#this person and the pr*ship person were famously at eachothers' throats#i do not stand by the pr*ship persons' actions. their opinions on the other person were honestly right though. the only thing i agree with.#once again i complain about proshits and gatekeeps. the two are almost as bad as eachother to me#or at least two awful sides that have affected me and my ability to make friends online.#so that's what this remined me of.
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ellzilla · 2 months
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And to no ones surprise, you know who is acting as if we are the problem. Not surprised just disappointed. Like I THINK when most of the fandom has something to say something about a post, in which YOU deleted, I don’t think we’re the ones that are the problem. At this point it just feels like they’re still using the tags to spite as because they’re upset that no one agreeded with them.
But anyway. I’m glad that the whole incident had some positivity spreading throughout the tag.
Mhm mhm! Agree with a majority of this 'cept the 'still using tags to spite' thing. They def deleted the post bc they couldn't handle how people reacted to their horrendous take was plus didn't want creepypasta fans who have no clue abt it to see it while scrolling through their blog. Ik they've mildly annoyed people before by crosstagging their posts as Marble Hornets when it has little to nothing relating to it so it's just tags for reach. It's kinda crayzay they double downed with another post like. If you're gonna delete that shitass take post, why make another abt it that calls everyone who disagreed with you Horny Stupid Teenagers? Because if you had the post up, people'd see you? And indeed! Felt like a chunk of the fandom for a day said "Wtf you're a lil toxic, reminder to everyone this is Not The Case". Also crazy how they misused "if you can't write, don't" to mean "If you can't write a story 'properly' then don't fucking try" when it meant "If you're forcing yourself to write, don't and take a break". Bro turned a positive and healthy quote into one filled with venom!
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thecruellestmonth · 1 year
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Normal Batman fans: I don't want to engage with parts of canon in which my fave is an abusive asshole. I choose to engage with other stories instead, and I ignore stories that I dislike.
Nasty toxic Batman fans: Ooh, Bruce is being totally gross again, don't mind if I do~
Good Dad Bruce™ stans: Yes, I fully acknowledge that every single one of Bruce's kids is deeply—at times suicidally—traumatized by his parenting failures in canon, but he is NOT a bad parent! Bruce LOVES his family. Sometimes COMPLICATED PARENTS make their children feel WORTHLESS and ISOLATED, and then don't do anything to fix it! It's totally NATURAL, Bruce is just a COMPLICATED parent! He's COMPLICATED! Bruce LOVES his family. COMPLICATED, I say! NOT ABUSIVE! Would an abusive parent put a hand on his child's shoulder in a vague display of warmth once every few years??? Hm??? Yeah, I DIDN'T THINK SO, YOU STUPID ABUSE VICTIMS!! Bruce LOVES his family. He does nice things—why are you ignoring all the nice things that he's done? He is just an IMPERFECT person, he has made some teeny tiny mistakes repeatedly with 5+ separately acquired children over a twenty-year period. Bruce is just a regular IMPERFECT human being—which means that you critics are the UNREASONABLE MONSTERS imposing PERFECTIONIST standards on a poor innocent middle-aged baby adult man! Bruce LOVES his family. How could we expect exceptionally privileged hyperintelligent parents NOT to regularly use their position of power to make 4-6 children feel inadequate, unsafe, and alone?? What ridiculously high standards! Bruce LOVES his family.
#I hope you impressionable youngsters are learning the warning signs of abusive families and cults during your time in this fandom.#Bruce Wayne hate club#COMPLICATED PARENT BRUCE WAYNE#You know I personally like my own cobbled version of Bruce Wayne too. I like to ignore canon as I please.#But some of you stans work overtime to come up with the cruelest most hurtful insensitive and vomit-inducing IGNORANT opinions about abuse.#So eager to sanitize decades of a grown rich white male hero living his power fantasy on the backs of vulnerable and traumatized kids#--in your zeal to make sure that the world's most popular superhero doesn't suffer a whisper of criticism--#you choose to echo the excuses given to powerful people who use their power to hurt and control smaller people.#'He is complicated—' His behavior is abusive.#'He didn't intend to—' He did something abusive.#'But he LOVES his family!' He is an abusive piece of shit and he needs to do better.#'Well he is just an imperfect human—' Nobody is asking him to be perfect. Not everyone perpetuates abuse and refuses to change.#'But you have to understand that he had a very terrible childhood.' Every single one of his kids has had an inarguably worse childhood.#'Hm. That version of Bruce really is an abusive asshole. My homebrew isn't and he wouldn't do that.' DING DING DING! WINNER WINNER! 🥳👑👑👑#'Bruce is an abusive asshole. He is the perfect meow meow for my fiction about toxic families and dark themes.' YES. YOU WIN. 💗👏👏👏😘😘😘#IMPERFECT PARENT BRUCE WAYNE#negativity#fandom discourse#anti Bruce Wayne#child abuse mention cw#The funny thing is that this blog discusses Jason Todd the most but I'd say he probably suffered the least abuse.#At least he's a villain. What is Bruce's excuse for the way he mistreats and neglects the others?
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velvetineblue · 4 months
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lynnie mentioned a "tseng family barbecue" and i'm so obsessed with the image of that akjhjkaj it's an incredible picture in my mind everyone is having a good time. tai's dad is grilling premium kobe beef steaks like 'who wants some MEAT', looking super sexy and dilf-like at the grill ... meanwhile tai is in the corner like
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i hate you i hate you i hate you, i'm crushing you with my MIND
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theokusgallery · 6 months
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I freaking love your au and your latest comic because MAN
I FELT THOSE LAST WORDS AND I WAS LIKE "OH FUCK"
First panel was already a bit unsettling itself - like you get it's just intimate manners as you do as a couple but he felt so possessive already and
Sunny's inner thoughts
I'm sure 100% his abandonment anxiety will increase drastically the more he stays with nick and honestly slay
I mean it's kinda obvious
But like I felt that
Yeah
Nick is unhinged
Nick is crazy
Y'all are gay for him
Good 😵💥
Sunny has soooo many issues. So many of them. He's so vulnerable and he makes himself vulnerable to Nick while still being intimidated by him, it's... Dude's got some problems.
#ive talked about mental illness and nick before but not sunny...#well. only a bit. ive said sunny's autistic#but he's also got other problems-- such as abandonment issues as you said#sunny's very insecure in relationships - partly because he has a very limited experience with them#and partly because he has self image issues.#when you grow up as an undiagnosed autistic kid you tend to be very aware you're different while not knowing how to change it#everyone thinks and says you're weird but you have no idea what's weird about you so you can't even try to fit in#a friend of mine told me once that she thought i was so brave for not being scared of being different in middle school#i wasn't. i wasn't brave. i just had no idea why people thought i was weird#sunny in this au knows how deeply different he is from other people but he doesn't know /what/ makes him different or how to change it#and as a result he just doesn't open up very much. he's very reserved and doesnt talk to many people. he has like two friends total#which also conviently makes him easy for nick to isolate#sunny also has bpd! and he gets deeply attached to people who show him any kind of affection very easily#as i mentioned before he also tends to fall for people who intimidate or scare him -- people he sees as mentally superior to him#his self image is constantly oscilliating between 'im the greatest person to have ever lived' and 'im the worst thing to have ever existed'#he's extremely unstable. he has mood swings. he gets obsessive easily. he seeks out relationships with mostly toxic or older people#he doesn't have a good support system. he's socially anxious and an introvert. he's openly trans. most people think he's weird.#he has no stable sense of self. he has panic attacks. he's both hypervigilant and oblivious to lies and attempts at manipulation#all of this makes him a very easy target for someone like nick.#at least- at /least/-- nick genuinely loves him.#ask#tosteur-gluteal#rant#arsenic#i start talking about psychology and i get lost. my apologies
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maxphilippa · 1 year
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"Everyone is allowed to have their own takes in terms of headcanons" and "You still should respect others if they see a character or relationship in a different way than yours" are concepts that SHOULD co-exist
mostly on the object show community
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lestatlioncunt · 2 years
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❝It was believed that the marriage between lady Arianne Aspasia of House Vance of Wayfarer's Rest and Colton of House Celtigar was one of love. A claim that held only a partial truth: the affection lord Colton felt for his dear wife was undeniable, while the rumors surronding lady Arianne spoke of a deep closeness she only ever shared with her childhood friend, princess Rhaenyra Targaryen. Though, the union gave life to two twins: Visenyra Cornelia Celtigar and Maegar Lucretio Celtigar. At their birth, the siblings were graciously gifted with two dragon eggs of princess Rhaenyra’s she-dragon Syrax, a most precious gift from the woman they would grow to consider almost as a second mother. The favoritism and even the curious naming of the Celtigar twins, undeniably reminiscent of House Targaryen offspring, kept the realm whispering about the true nature of lady Arianne and princess Rhaenyra relation.❞
#hello no thoughts i'm posting the hotd ocs on main#the day i will make gifs too it's the day you all will know i'm too far gone to be saved#anyways jfdnfk i don't even know how to tag this#*ocstuff#mine#hotd#hotd ocs#oc: arianne#oc: colton#oc: visenyra#oc: maegar#ok now's the part where i go insane with facts. mh ari and rhae love each other end of the take have a nice day everyone#something something 'if i can't dream of our family i'll make yours mine and you'll make mine yours'#rhae giving the not-targ kids of the woman she absolutely doesn't love at all mh-mh like: (twirling hair) they would look cute with our-I#MEAN YOURS. YOURS KIDS. nfsdkjfn also ari is a dragonrider bc i decided she claims a..uh unclaimed dragon bc shes sexy and cool#she has a lil personal name for him (which i still need to fully decide on) but for everyone her dragon goes by full title. the lord of the#skies...ari is such a lil show off ksdjfkf. also house celtigar has valyrian blood going on too. i chose it exactly bc i wanted the twins to#have the white hair fashion <33 as it stands rn with my Lore everyone here dies after the dance beside maegar (FOR NOW) so f. vhanya has a#very on brand toxic relationship with u know who if u saw me post at least once about this show sdjfk and mmmh dare i say ari chose each#name for her kids with rhae...colton standing there like uhh i'm the father u know? SHUT UP wifey is naming the kids with her girlfriend#also lil fun fact before i shut up forever: when i made ari i just went yea VANCE surely there's NO house vance in here (later discoveries#pointed out i'm a clown but luckly i exactly needed a forgettable house of no-ones for her. vance who?) anyways it's all cool bc incredibly?#one branch of house vance supports the blacks during the dance and idk the coincidences of life huh
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br1ghtestlight · 19 hours
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i love to make up horrible toxic fanon ships for my own ocs. its so funny 2 me and also interesting..... like every combination of characters that could conceivably happen i have thought about. some of them would 100% without a doubt make each other WORSE. some of them i genuinely think couldve worked if i had come up with them earlier and invested the time into their romantic relationship. some of them are actual jokes between my characters in "canon" bcuz specifically i think the idea of jayden thinking two is hot is funny Tbh. like he doesn't want u bro!!!!!! he barely even wants sunshine!!!!!
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drewsaturday · 23 days
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i will move my attention away from discoursey topics one day but for now it almost is a lil healing being able to talk about that stuff so openly lmao. i kinda find it funny how when i made this blog i was like "ok! gonna be normal now!" but then that attracted ppl who were not aware i'm a heathen and things got awkward so i'd rather be as clear as possible aj;lkdlkfj.
and like... it is just nice going from walking on eggshells trying not to talk about any ways my ships may be Problematic to now embracing that. i can do that without acknowledging bullshit opinions in the meantime, even though that is very hard. i know i shouldn't rly waste my breath on it all... it's just kinda fun to be mean about it back for now, and unfortunately still something of a precursor for me to address before diving more deeply into a fandom just to get my own thoughts sorted.
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