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The princess arrives in his chariot (ford f-150) | Montreal, Quebec | 6.5.2024

#he looks so good #but honestly the amount of people surrounding that hotel gives me the ick #dr3

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Check to see if you have a 'bring your hair dryer to work with you' therapist.

I'm serious. I've been in and out of the mental healthcare system in the UK and US for over 20 years and if I have learned anything about clinicians it is that they divide care into "want to make the client "sane"" and "make the client able to live a comfortable/happy life" categories.

Let me explain.

There's a really good post that can be found here: http://benedante.blogspot.com/2016/12/the-hair-dryer-incident.html

The long and short is a person was struggling with obsessive compulsive disorder who worried that if they left their hair dryer plugged in then they would burn down their house. This had them disrupt their life to check on their fear and their clinician told them to bring the hair dryer to work with them so when the panic set in they could see the hair dryer was with them and it would soothe their fear with minimal disruption.

The blog post above goes into it. Mental healthcare professionals arguing over whether this was "enabling" and a detriment to healing and coping versus those who saw that the life disruption had been solved and it's okay for the client to not be healed if they can live their life.

So. Get a 'take your hair dryer to work' therapist. Ask yours about the hypothetical and see where their priorities lie. Are they trying to help you or heal you? They may sound like the same thing but they're not always. Ask yourself what you want from your circumstances?

We have DID and our therapist always treats us as individuals (something the DSM-V specifically warns clinicians against) because she saw how much damage it was doing for us to try and shift and change our behavior to be socially accepteable. It's better for our mental health to embrace "being insane" (my words, not hers) than to repress ourselves to the point of denying anyone the chance to get to know us.

Every clinician will carry baggage with them. That's just normal. But you got to know where their priorities lie. There's a lot of stigma in the mental health field. Knowing if they'd encourage you to act a little crazy for the sake of your peace and comfort helps.

At least. That's our opinion.

#this is actually the most useful post I've seen about picking a therapist #honestly when you're 29 and still in deep with the same mental health struggles you've had since you were 3 years old #its not about making you sane #its about helping you live with your illness

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happy pride 🏳️‍🌈

#canonical sweat kink #mv33 #dr3

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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

#at work today I literally had to try not to cry bc I am surround by young beautiful gen z gals and I am just an awkward ugly millennial

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he's very scary (he's eating his dad's hair)

#cl16 #leo leclerc

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F1 Grand Prix of Canada June 19, 2022 Photo by Clive Mason

#mv33

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Charles' Monaco '24 Vlog ❤️🤍

#the sweetest little baby dog #cl16 #leo leclerc

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What is Maxiel Fest?

Max Verstappen and Daniel Ricciardo have never succeeded in being normal about each other and now it is time to celebrate their permanent heart eyes with a festival of all things Maxiel.

What can I do for Maxiel Fest?

Absolutely anything! Fic, art, a video, gifsets, moodboards, playlists, journals… the list is endless. If you can create it, it is welcome in Maxiel Fest.

Can I include other pairings?

Yes absolutely, but Maxiel must be the primary relationship and the endgame. You may also write OT3 if you would like to, as long as it includes Max and Daniel.

What are the requirements?

• Your creation must include Max and Daniel as either a romantic or platonic pairing

• You must tag your work accordingly

• That’s it!

When is the deadline?

August 17th, this is in the middle of the F1 summer break! The collection will go live at 8pm GMT.

Do I need to sign up?

No, it’s a no pressure fest. Simply upload to the collection before the deadline if you want to participate.

Where is the AO3 collection?

Here!

What shall I do if I’m not posting to AO3?

If you can post your work to AO3, please do! We like to feed the archive. However if AO3 doesn’t accept your art format then please use the tag #maxielfest2024 on tumblr.

Is there a discord server I can join?

There are TWO! This fest is a collaboration between Golden Boots Boy and Honey Badger. You are very welcome to join (even if you are not participating! cheerleaders welcome!) and both servers have areas for discussing writing and for sprinting together.

Can you provide any inspiration?

Absolutely, the Golden Boots Boy server has prompts that you can pick up here. You can also follow @maxielfest for inspiration and prompts that we will be reblogging.

If you have any further questions please do not hesitate to ask! - @33max @puzzlebean @thatsapodium @burnishedvictory 💜🩷💙

#signal boost!

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