Hannah Montana is fucked up because its entire POINT as a show is that children should be protected from fame and exploitation, but it stars a REAL little girl that's being exploited. Nearly every episode carries the looming threat of Miley being outed as Hannah and losing her peaceful teenage life to the ravages of fame. Her father in the show (played by her own father in real life) wisely protected her from the trauma of fame by making her wear a disguise and live a rather quiet, interview-free life. Meanwhile the REAL Billy Ray Cyrus sold his daughter to Disney Channel when she was 11 and forced her to read dialogue about how terrible it would be to face the public eye. Like... Jesus, dude. The fictional Robby Ray is 10x the father, and it's not even close. (It's also IMMENSELY funny that her dad doesn't use his real name in the show, while she does. Almost like he wanted a bit of a disconnect between his identity and his character. Something Miley didn't get.)
Idk man it's just like. "You could never understand the experience of x queer identity because you're x other queer identity" feels so reductive. Intentionally or not you're making it sound like all people with this one identity have the same experience. There are common experiences sure. But they are far from universal. But there is overlap across identity lines! And I'm tired of people pretending there isnt? Like either you're not engaging with enough parts of your own and other communities or you're disregarding any experiences that challenge this framework and idk which I dislike more lol