I think I've made it very clear in every other thing I've written on the subject, but to me, it is exactly "wholesome" portrayals of heterosexual married life, fairy-tale romances, heterosexual love stories and love songs, that have the most insidious and warping effect on the development of children and their capacity to conceptualize sexuality in a healthy way. Indoctrinating boys and girls into the idea that a life that proceeds to heterosexual marriage and childbirth as a default is infinitely more harmful to that child than seeing a man in assless chaps in public