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Here’s a link to a petition to protect Native American land in NC from a gas station chain which poses immense environmental threats, has violated workers rights, and will destroy land with historical significance to natives. My ancestors traveled the trading path they plan to build over. Please sign if you have a moment
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gjsdhfkasj i love seeing people trying not to shit on this weeks dr who ep like.... pls just say it wasnt good 😭😭
#i understand looking back this will be a good filler ep but THE PLOT HOLES#the confuuuuuuuuuuuuuusion#it was just bad 😭😭😭#wasnt a big fan of boom but like...... cmooon#doctor who spoilers#ive LOVED 15 so much hes such a fresh breath of air but like. theyve built this mystery up n its hard for them to keep this going while als#making fillers and giving it the space they clearly want it to have#you couldnt even explain it a little???????????????
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There’s something about Edwards meeting look a likes of death girlfriends…
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If I had a nickel for every time an Eddie/Ed had a woman show up dressed like their dead ex to force them to confront their trauma and/or fears,
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#no i dont know this guy wouldnt it be funny if we got married??? jk#......................... unless?
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Assad Zaman in Interview with the Vampire season 2 episode 2 "Do you know what it means to be loved by death?" (2024) dir. Levan Akin
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taking the day off of packing to watch star trek and play hades charon save me save me charon
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Gotham s4e05: Edward experiences a less than pleasant awakening.
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did anyone elses parents tell them stories about being homeless multiple times in their twenties? and now having to be homeless multiple times in my 20s its like..... huh. okay. we arent going to fix this cycle huh? okay. cool. good to know.
#something something the cautionary tales they give us of their own mistakes are both A. unavoidable in our own lives due to our similar#faults and handicaps that run through our veins. you just failed to help me battle ours.#And B. incredibly sad that their stories of suffering couldnt prevent ours bc the failure has always lied outside of#our control
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Doing more than one? Choose whichever you found the most helpful. ❤️
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fucccccking losing my mind over their "oh" moments rn ‼️‼️‼️
#sickening fucking sickening#nygmobblepot#gotham#ed nygma#oswald cobblepot#riddlebird#putting my limited editing skills to work to make me and my fiance suffer#of COURSE oswalds would be backed by candle light and violins... while eds is a brief flash -- a quickly fading smile a hope in his eyes#before he has to tuck it away from sight subconsciously 😭😭😭😭😭
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it was kind of fucked up for wall-e to be that way about fat people now that im thinking about it
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"immoral" "self-destructive" opinion or whatever but making art for no one fucking sucks shit
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A surprisingly helpful bit of social maneuvering I've figured out from trial and error:
Throughout your life, you are going to need things from people. Often, it's going to be on a deadline. And when that deadline passes, you generally want to know what's going on. So, you need to ask them.
There are two kinds of people, broadly, in this situation. The Shameless will tell you what the holdup is, with absolutely no regard for if the reason is "good enough". This is actually very helpful, because you get the real reason immediately, and can start working on a solution.
The Ashamed is trickier. People who are Ashamed are people who were often told they were giving excuses when they were trying to explain, and they'll often avoid you until they solve the problem on their own. This causes them and you a lot of stress, and often takes a lot longer to solve.
Long term, the strategy for dealing with people who are Ashamed is to provide a supportive environment where they're comfortable sharing any problems they're having with getting things done. But, there's a way to at least partially short-circuit that:
Provide an explanation for them.
One example might be "Hey Susan, I noticed that I don't have your report yet. Are you busy with other projects?" The readymade explanation signals that you're willing to accept an explanation, which is the big anxiety point.
Sometimes, you still won't get an honest answer- especially if the honest answer isn't "good enough" by the standards of the person who traumatized them. But, I've found that it often at least gets you a lie that lets you give them some slack or work around the problem.
Let's say that Susan has actually completely forgotten that she needed to do the report. She's horrified at herself, and completely unwilling to admit the real problem. But, she can now safely reply with "Sorry Jennifer, I've been swamped, and it got lost in the mix. I can have it to you in two days. Does that work?"
From there, so long as Susan gave an estimate for when she can actually do it, she and Jennifer can hash out a solution.
It's not a perfect solution, but it works astonishingly well for how small of a change it is.
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