Hello, I recently revisited Harry’s BHG interview and came across this quote:
"For a long time, it felt like the only thing that was mine was my sex life. I felt so ashamed about it, ashamed at the idea of people even knowing that I was having sex, let alone who with."
Some people were theorizing that he would have no reason to feel ashamed if he was—as the media perceives him to be—having sex with women.
Personally agreeing with that theory, I think he was referring to the fact that he was so wrapped up in his straight, womanizer persona that he would feel "ashamed" during the intimate real life moments he shares with his partner (who obviously I think is Louis as I am a larrie) …
what are your thoughts? Thank you :)
Hi, sugar. Hm. I see what you’re saying, and yeah, i can see that absolutely being something he struggled with.
I think, given the context of what he was talking about in that interview (the purity clause etc), that even just the idea that he had sex at all, regardless of who with, had been made to seem like a shameful thing he had to hide from the world. So, I agree that if he was actually sleeping with women there’s less he would be shamed for especially given how much he was sexualized while in the band. But the assumption that it was a man he was sleeping with, on top of the fact that they all were meant to portray this squeaky clean sexless image (never mind that he was being sexualized at every turn). So people thinking he was having sex at all was made into this terrible thing. And then throw in how harshly they were closeted…
That quote makes me so fucking angry. Can you imagine how traumatizing that is? Everything about you is all over the internet, everyone is speculating about you, and the one thing you have that’s private, the one part of you that feels your own, you’re made to feel is something to be ashamed of. And he was so young. I just rage when I give too much thought to what they’ve been through.
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Matt saying "I'm coming for his head." about Aemond and Daemon Emma talking about the Velaryon fleet, Bethany, Harry, and Phoebe all in the promo, Olivia talking about Vhagar, Steve saying team black just has better looking people. We've never been more back.
These actors will literally be hated and bullied, what are you talking about? If you open Tom's interviews, he adores Aegon, Ewan adores Aemond. For God's sake…
appearances of actors aside cause they all are bullied for that, especially matt, ewan and emma and racists comments too (i'm saying that just to be clear, i will comment only on actors actions)
you mean the actors would be bullied for supporting tg and going against tb... like ewan for praising aemond? or tom describing how would he kill rhaenyra if he could? or olivia sympathizing with alicent? bffr
these are really some of least agressive tweets, but still negative towards tb actors:
calling real person a bastard for playing silly game (also harry was attacked for choosing maester over alicent but when ewan chose in one game daemon over alicent it was fine), making fun of their character's death, bethany was being eaten up for going tb while tgc did the same with tg and no one said a word, the insinuations that harry collett did sexual favors for the role of jace (mind you, he was 16!! when he landed the part and i'm not even gonna comment on harassing elliot that way, creating fanarts and ships luke x adult people with using 14yo elliot's face), being compared to animals, emma is being constantly insulted and misgendered by tg who hates rhaenyra and the same goes with phoebe cause they said one sentence in promo video...
i'm not saying tg cast don't experience that kind of behaviour, sure they do. while it's not true that they don't anymore speak praising their characters or tg cause they do, especially tgc. the truth is they didn't say anything here what would be worthy argument that aegon should be the king because it's simply not true. what could they say? "aegon is the man" doesn't matter, law of inheritance the crown doesn't work that way. "rhaenyra has three bastards" it's about her claim, not jace's. "daemon would be terrible consort, too close to power" sooo unlike aegon the rapist who actually would be a king? "rhaenyra slept with more than one man" you try to say it in 2024. what they can say?? the show and books clearly stated the greens are usurpers, the actors know their characters are wrong. ewan gave motives of aemond but the rest of them didn't even try that
i literally went on twitter to look for that kind of stuff and like i said - there's so many insults about actors' appearances but speaking only about their opinions about teams, what i see is team black that is being constantly attacked, especially the young ones and/or black actors. whenever they have their promo or speak well or team black there's always bunch of people who will attack them and i don't even count "they're boring" cause while it's stupid, it's not really an attack ig. while in case of bullying for appearance i don't go against one team, that's here it's very clear to me that tg stans many times crossed the line
actors still speak well on their characters and tg, so stop that bs, the problem here was that they didn't have anything to say. also sooo which one, they can't say anything to not be bullied or they show how much they love their characters? no mention that you can love a character and still see they're wrong lmao
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