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thegirlinthecher · 1 day

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Is this a sign 🥹 ? Am I aro-ace?

#pretty sure I'm not getting a better sign than this #no because that is literally the combo of our flags #aurora borealis #northern lights #asexuality #aroace #aromantism #lgbtqia #aromantic #asexual #reblogs thanks for the concern i am safee just nervouss #pride

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i-like-swiss-cheese · 3 days

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OK GUYS

SO

THE ASEXUALS HAVE GARLIC BREAD

BUT WHAT DO WE AROMANTICS HAVE?

I SAY THAT WE MAKE THE ARO FOOD BE SWISS CHEESE

DONT LOOK AT MY BLOG TITLE I AM TOTALLY NOT BIASED WHATSOEVER

TRUST

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little-witchys-garden · 2 days

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I couldn't get very much from this creepers post because they blocked me and literally ace/aro person who called out their bad behavior after calling of course calling these ace/aro ppl fucking losers...

So apparently when they were younger like in early middle school their ace friend got mad because divine made them uncomfortable... And divine held onto this all these years... Then decided to make a weird TikTok about it to make the person who they haven't seen in years... They are mocking their ace friend that they had as a child and only as a child.

Weird energy my dude

But of course there was ppl giving their support and just saying nasty stuff about ace/aro people here's some

And these were the comments they were leaving to any ace/aro person who didn't agree with the comments or divines behavior

The attacking people comment was used repeatedly by divine towards anyone that called out people on acephobia or just rapey comments...

Calling ace and aro spec people fucking losers was also constantly used by divine towards any ace/aro people that didn't agree with the gross stuff going on in the comments.

The person that divine is calling a fucking losers was literally politely talking to another ace person about dming to talk about shared asexual experiences because the comments were making them uncomfortable. (ｰ̀дｰ́)

There was one creeper basically trying to say ace people not being okay with sexual things happening around them " think the world revolves around them" and saying things like -

" no isn't a boundary"

" even if people were having sex in front of you, you can't demand they stop just because you tell them no"

" you can't demand people stop being sexually Or romantically attracted to you"

and repeatedly called any ace and aro that disagreed a " child that didn't understand consent"

divine liked these comments, you can you into divines comments and see that yourself...

I wish I could have gotten more screen shots of vile things being said but divine is blocking everyone who disagrees and deleting comments that could incriminate them at such a fast speed, it'll give you whiplash.

They still have the post up I'm pretty sure but not sure how long they will with the backlash that divine is desperately trying to hide.

y'all can try if you guys wanna go see it.

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laurabstar · 2 days

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when you're a writer but then you find our you're aroace so now you get why you were so bad at writing romantic/seggsy scenes (+ now you can't read your own stories wo wanting to die)

#asexual #lgbtq community #ace #aroace #lgbtq #lgbtqia #acespec #arospec #aromantic #aro pride #aromantism #writing #writeblr #writers on tumblr #writers meme #writerscommunity #female writers #writers corner #writers and poets

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iamshmolphrog · 12 hours

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AROACE ART WOOO!

im actually thinking of doing outfits inspired by lots of different pride flags for June so PLEASE leave a suggestion of your flag or just one you think would look good! odds are I won't be able to do one every single day but by golly I'm gonna cram in as many as possible

(and if you want to search for them my art is tagged #shmol frog art)

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mgc02 · 19 hours

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AroAce Confusion: when you feel other types of attraction towards people often fictional characters and you have a sort of "crush" and you don't know how to feel about it. Do I wanna... do something with this person? Maybe? No. Idk. But I can't stop thinking about them. Aaaaaaaaahhh whats wrong with me?!?! I wanna be close to them but not in a romantic or sexual way. But like more than friends. I know what a qpr is but what is qpr crush? Does squish count? I has confusion!!!

#aroace #aroace community #asexuality #aromantic #oriented aroace #tertiary attraction #platonic crush #asexual #aromantism

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aro-luigi · 3 days

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Saw someone ask "why is November such an aroace month" and like...

I was born in that month, is it not obvious?

#nov 2 is my bday btw #aromantic #aroace #arospec #aromantism #acespec #ace pride #asexual #asexuel #aroace community #november

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soulless-bex · 1 day

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best aspec characters?

#aro #aroace #aromantic #aromantism #ace #asexual #asexuality #aro characters #ace characters #aroace characters #aspec characters #aspec

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curiositysavesthecat · 2 days

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shiemori · 3 days

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It makes me upset that some people cant imagine a relationship without sex

#like what happened to hi how are you or 'i cooked you your favorite food'#or binge watching your favorite shows together and making inside jokes #aromantic #aroace #asexual #aromantism

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hazelcoffeecreamer · 5 hours

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Being AroAce kinda sucks.

Not because I hate being aroace, but because I hate feeling left out of different than allo people.

I watch shows, and I don't get the MCs motives or they do weird stuff I feel odd about.

Like- stop normalizing being perverted, I don't get how that's even entertaining!

I'm not lonely because I'm AroAce, I'm lonely because I'm forgotten and left out.

#aroace #asexual #aro ace #aromantic #aromantic asexual #arospec #aromantism #aro #acespec #ace #asexual spectrum

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gaycubes4life · 1 day

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I see pretty men in dresses and I immediately want to ravish them. I’m only in my cycle so rn I’m like, not ace really, but DAMN I NEED A PRETTY MAN WITH SHOULDER LENGTH HAIR TO CRY AS I DEVOUR HIM AND MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE THE PRETTIEST BOY IN THE WORLD!!!

#hornyposting #18+ content #18+ only #18+ account #18+ blog #18+ mdni #18+ post #on my period #transmasc #transgender #arospec #aroace #aromantic #aromantism #aro pride #asexual #acespec #ace

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daybringersol · 8 months

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fun fact (not fun at all fact actually) :

aromanticism and asexuality are still treated as issues to be fixed in most therapy settings, at least in the western psychiatric institution. i cannot fucking mention my aromanticism or asexuality to a therapist or it’ll immediately become their primary concern and goal to fix. whether or not i have a partner/am trying to have a partner is actively being used as an indicator of my wellness, regardless of if i WANT one. i cannot have access to needed mental health ressources because of fear of conversion therapy. aro and/or ace conversion therapy is the norm in most psychiatric institutions and we are getting told by the rest of the queer community that our oppression isnt real and that there is no link between our struggles and theirs.

more thoughts on the medicalization of asexuality and/or aromanticism

answers to common notes

aplatonic perspective

ressources

background information

tips to avoid aro and/or ace conversion therapy

#aromance #arospec #aroace #aro pride #aromantism #amatonormativity #aromantic #asexual #asexuality

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fun-k-boards · 2 months

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Things friends can't do according to allos!

(these are all things I have been told with 100% sincerity, and not stuff that I myself believe. Also I know not all allos are like this.)

Give each other meaningful gifts

Pay attention to the others likes and dislikes

Look at one another in a 'certain way' (???)

Match clothes or accessories

Hold hands for 'too long' (???)

Hug for 'too long' or hug 'too close' (???)

Cuddle because it's 'too intimate'

Not want to pull away during a hug or holding hands

Lean onto the other emotionally and physically

Smile in one another's presence

Laugh at each others jokes

Give genuine advice

Text each other 'good morning' 'good evening' 'good night' 'happy birthday' 'happy new years' 'merry Christmas' etc, etc

Ask how the others doing

I'll add more once I think of things I've forgotten

#aromantism #aromantic #aro #aroace #aroallo

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confusedhomicidalrage · 2 months

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"oh, you act so romantic with your friends-" SHUT UP! I CAN ACT ALL MUSHY AND SWEET WITH MY FRIENDS, WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT!? COWARD! YOU DON'T SHOWER YOUR FRIENDS IN AFFECTION AND LOVE!? YOU'RE WEAK! WEAK AND PATHETIC!

#aromantic #asexual #Normalize acting loving and affectionate with your friends and not have a crush on them #aroace #aromantism

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bynux · 2 months

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Trying to figure something out about myself; please reblog this for a larger sample size.

#queer #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #autism #actually autistic #neurodivergent #aromantic #aromance #aromantism #aroace #alloromantic

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