ace rant lmao
I’m kind of tired of other queer people who don’t fully understand aro/aspec identities either not allowing me to explain without dismissing it or trying to suggest that I’m a different identity, as if they know me better than I know myself.
I’m aroace because that’s the identity I most align and connect with. For some reason, people like to try and re-label me because I’ve been in past relationships and do have the ability to like someone after getting to know them—but the rarity of that actually happening is like finding a unicorn.
I do not develop romantic feelings for people after getting to know them and developing an emotional connection. The last time this happened was about 10 years ago, and even then, I don’t think it was necessarily romantic but me enjoying spending platonic time with that person as a friend.
So no, I’m not “this” because you think I’m “that.” I’m aroace because I know I’m aroace. If you just shut up and give aro/aspec people a chance to explain instead of suggesting what you think their identity is, then it’ll be much easier for you to learn and understand.
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Qi Rong
I drew this ages ago when his episode aired whoops
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lmaooo was gonna draw and the power went out in like half the city so i guess i’ll be living my best victorian life and sketching by candlelight 🕯️
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is there an algorithmic science behind memes and shitposts showing up in tags immediately but art and fics take literal days to show up?? and sometimes never do
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shooting stars
Jin Ling grants wishes with his shooting stars~
more of star jin ling here
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"And forever after, his eyes could never move away from him again."
Holy shit I think this took like 10 years off my life.
anyway I'm trying to learn how to use CSP cause it has more options than SAI so this took... forever. But hey, I think I'm getting the hang of it.
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"If the face says nothing, listen to the heartbeat" 🌸
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one more felony added to the two
instead of kicking fools,
i wish i would’ve busted you.
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