Guys I Just Wanted To Show you Something Cool... 😍
So, I'm Genderfluid, and my wife is making me a "Gender Blanket" which is like a temperature blanket (like the ones on tiktok?) but instead of tracking the temperature, we're tracking my feelings about my gender. So each color reflects how I feel about my gender each day- some of them are like 'slightly masc', 'slightly femme', etc. It's been such a cool way to talk about my gender with her, because I think before I struggled to explain my genderfluidity to her, and she struggled to understand. It also helps to see how my feelings change!
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Jesteine Enzo Francisco: Beautiful Filipino Transgender Woman. She's just amazing in gold that kills it with her wonderful caramel skin tone.
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Show your aspec pride with ace card suit keychains!
[Show your aspec pride with ace card suit keychains!]
Want to show your asexual/aromantic spectrum pride in physical merch, and support disabled aro+ace-spectrum people making pride items? We have lots of ace card suit keychains, so buy one or more for 2.5" of your flag(s) to hang anywhere you like!
There're many different flags available!
Options from the photo:
Asexual flag - Ace of Spades
Aroace flag - Ace of Spades
Asexual flag - Ace of Hearts
Alloace / Romantic Ace flag - Ace of Hearts
Grey-Asexual flag - Ace of Clubs
Grey-Aromantic flag - Ace of Clubs
Demisexual flag - Ace of Diamonds
Demiromantic flag - Ace of Diamonds
Favorite them and consider buying here! Out now and cheaper than our other keychains just for pride month!!
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i think that a lot of people would really benefit from reading or listening to or watching queer community stories, because any time someone gets up in arms or feels weird about something they haven't come across before, that they think exists in contradictory + uncomfortable-to-the-norm terms (bi lesbians/gay men, fagdykes, multigenders, trans men dykes/trans women fags, slutty aces, het bis, etcetcetc) it is guaranteed that this has existed and been documented for years and years
we've got to resist the idea that queerness exists as a set of specific limited actions (for example, a woman who only has sex with women is the only real lesbian, a man who only has sex with men is the only real gay man (let's not unpack who counts as a real woman or a real man with that statement), a trans woman/man only counts if xyz, bisexual has to mean two, pansexual has to be this or that, if you have sex like this you can't be that, if you relationships like that you can't be this, etcetc.) rather than a way people are involved in communities, in expression, in inspiration, in feeling, and yes, in actions but of a far more varied kind that cannot be pinned down so simply and matter far more for how the individual engages with them than as a form of judgement before an invisible panel
queer has always been a deep, messy, open-doored exploration of the fluidity of humanity, and it's never at any point in its history been clear cut, easily definable, easily identifiable groups of segregated people that just sometimes "happen" to have overlapping political and philosophical causes and otherwise always stay in opposite corners of the room -- some people do feel like their identities are very clear cut, and that's fine, but the next step from that is never to self-segregate or gatekeep or try to diminish and make small what queerness encompasses
quite simply, it's never been that clear cut. seek it out. be chill
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Me, seeing a beautiful gay photo, "Oh I'll make a quick study/wriolette !"
hm, maybe not so quick 👀
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sure "romantic" isn't the only type of love but also "love" isn't the only type of positive feeling. So maybe stop insisting everyone needs love to be happy and accept that loveless ppl exist? Pretty please?
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"queer identities are getting too complex" good. be complex. confuse cis people. confuse straight people. aim to be what cishets call cringe. be incomprehensible. be unfathomable.
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cw transphobia
obviously this is an extremely bizarre tweet that got ratioed to hell and back, but it’s also hilarious that of all the authors in the entire English literary canon, she somehow landed on Shakespeare as the epitome of cisnormative writing.
like ma’am shakespeare’s characters go on stage and announce their gender to the audience within the first few lines in nearly every play. Including…you know….the very play you reference???
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Reblog to give a transphobe indigestion.
*gurlegurgle*
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DISCLAIMER: I am not trans myself*, but I've been wondering what the spread of phrasing is. I consulted with a trans friend for options. These are ALL things I've seen or heard people say, including "back when I was a man" from a trans woman. This isn't about what you think people SHOULD say, just what you personally use.
Please stay polite about how people use language to describe their own experiences.
Cis people PLEASE do not vote, I want to see the actual spread of results, and too many "other" or "this is how I WOULD if I were trans" votes will skew the results. You'll get to see the answers in a week.
Finally, I recognize that some of these can describe different points in the same transition (e.g. "before I figured out" and "before I transitioned" can be used by the same person to describe experiences at two different moments), but just go with what feels best.
* I have a weird relationship with gender that's mostly cis but not quite, and not different enough for me to feel like Trans applies. I originally had a different, more joke-y phrasing there, but was told I might get flack for it since most people do not live in my brain.
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yeah? well have you tried being a dyke about it?
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I’m curious - people always seem surprised that multiple siblings are queer, as if it’s amazing the gay lightning struck twice so close together.
But human variation is down to our genes and external factors. Siblings are logically more likely to both/all be queer than not.
So a wee poll if you don’t mind!
Anyone can take part, there should be an option for anyone but please let me know in notes if I missed anyone.
For reference: queer is anyone who wouldn’t describe themselves as heterosexual or cis-gendered or allo-sexual. Anyone we would include in the queer group. And if you’re not including people by their own identification, we can have words after…
Notes:
If you only have one sibling use the relevant all option.
If you have an issue with the word queer I truly don’t want to hear about it - that’s your choice, this is mine.
Reblog if you fancy! If you don’t then no worries, but if you can it would be nice to get a lot of replies!
And hey everyone, happy Pride!
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did you know that if you use neopronouns, it/its, and/or nounself pronouns you're one of the coolest people on the planet
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