yo why is being a lesbian both a blessing and a curse

I can’t even elaborate bc it’s so wild

"Untitled" by Laurence Jaugey-Paget, 1994

source: Nothing But the Girl: The Blatant Lesbian Image, edited by Susie Bright and Jill Posener

actually begging to be used by an older woman this pride month (or i'll die i fear)

how do i try to put this for people who get confused about aromantic lesbians and gays. not every aro lesbian is like this so disclosure: i am talking about my experience as an aro lesbian, but i feel like it's still important to discuss. lesbians can be aromantic and asexual, and even both- i am on the ace spectrum, so i can be considered an aroace lesbian. the thing is, i still experience lesbian and sapphic attraction even if it's not necessary romantic.

the way i try to phrase it is i have a deep attraction toward all dykes: butches, studs, bulldykes, femmes, lesboys, transbians, non binary dykes, intersex dykes, transmasc, ftm & trans male dykes, transfem dykes, genderqueer dykes, male dykes, bigender dykes, genderfluid dykes, two-spirit dykes. and sapphic identifying women, men & people. i'm dyke oriented. i want to be around other dykes of any identity- i want to live in domestic environmnets with other lesbians & dykes, taking care of one another, making sure we're alright.

i want to be there for other dykes in my community. i want to come visit to check on how they're doing when they're sick. i wanna be there to listen to the stone butches when they feel estranged. i want to give them groceries that i didn't end up liking but i know they would. i want to laugh and joke and goof off with other dykes. i want to be there to listen when they have gender or identity dysphoria. i wanna go bowling with the butches. i wanna workout at the gym with the bulls. i wanna go clothes shopping with the lesboys & boydykes to find them clothes that make them feel like themselves. i want to give other dykes a place to stay when they're going through hard times. i want to befriend with the weird "crazy" "ugly" dykes who are freaky. i want to be there when something scary happens so i can provide comfort and support. i want to help give resources and aid to other poor dykes who need it.

there are a lot of ways to be a dyke, lesbian, or sapphic. whatever you want to call yourself under this umbrella, there are a tons of ways to express it. i don't have to want to cuddle, kiss or hug other dykes in a romantic fashion. maybe i like surrounding myself with other dykes. maybe i just really prefer the company of other dykes. it's not that hard to wrap one's brain around once you break it down like that. there's a million other ways to be in someone else's company and spend time together. i assure you there is more to adult relationships than sex and romance. those are wonderful things for the people who enjoy them, but for those of us who are aromantic and/or asexual, there are many other ways to enjoy the company of other folks in a very queer fashion.

happy pride to every aromantic spectrum lesbian, dyke & sapphic person, you deserve to be seen and heard just as much as every other dyke. you matter

They love each other so much 🥰😍 Aneung ❤️ Khun Neung from "Blank the series"

Real talk tho we need more dom femme × bottom butch pairings like what if I wanna imagine topping Mizu like lemme show my girl some loveeeee

"But I haven't shaved"

Okay? Take your fucking pants off, that's not gonna stop me from eating you out.

https://kendra-921.cndef.asia/h/Bx0iCo5

fuck me in the bar bathroom?

✨💕 g-d bless a good hair day 💕✨

Outfit of the day

I didn't step on someone unfortunately, any volunteers here?

fuck me with my heels on after a fancy party <33

pretty hyper-femme who wears a lot of pink + her pretty butch who rocks the white tank top and middle school boy shorts combo = a match made in hell🎀

- this post was made by a minor, mdni accs dni.

Lets go on a picnic and talk about all the future pets we’ll have