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weepingfishturtledragon · 9 months

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Captain Marvel Adopts Superboy AU

I've been seeing more Connor and Dad Captain Marvel content and I want to add. I imagine it being Connor's first birthday and Captain Marvel wanting to throw the best birthday party ever! He talked to the Gods and got a full day in the gardens on Mount Olympus, he decorated, invited the entire Young Justice League, made the perfect cake himself, and got him a powerful artifact as his gift or maybe Conner's signature leather jacket with a lightning bolt stitched on the back! It was amazing and really fun but at the end of the day I see Captain Marvel becoming emotional about how fast Connor and everyone is growing up and crying a lot little.

#billy batson #shazam #dc comcis #captain marvel #dc captain marvel #young justice league #superboy #conner kent #kon el #captain marvel adopts superboy au #honestly i would cry too :')#seems like yesterday Cap was offering his home to Connor #growing up too fast #dad marvel #Cap is sad about both Billy and Connor #please ignore any spelling or grammar mistakes

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batmobilestires · 4 months

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need a fanfic of Bruce realizing that Jason doesn’t know how to properly do simple “traditional men’s” things (tying a tie, shaving, etc) because Jason had been dead, but now Bruce finally gets to teach him all of those father&son things

#bruce and jason #bruce wayne is a good dad #resurrected jason todd #father and son #bruce wayne #batman #jason todd #red hood #plot for sale #bittersweet #growing up too fast #dc

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smaeemo · 18 days

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It’s crazy to see how people interpret dean and sam’s brother dynamic as “wincest”

Some people have clearly never trauma bonded with their parentified older sibling. Then you take into account the degree of trauma that they have been through and continue to go through. Their codependency stems from their childhood and current traumas, their mental states due to that, the way they grew up with their father obsessing over the importance of “family is everything,” and the deep parentification of Dean, AKA Dean having to be a CHILD while raising his little brother, and taking care of his insane father. It’s not “wincest”/incestuous in anyway, it’s called trauma, parentification and general unstable family dynamics.

I think that a lot of “wincest” shippers don’t actually see what trauma can do to a person and their dynamics, specifically the people that endured that trauma with you. Dean, who was the older one that had to in HIS WORDS “be the mother, father, and brother” of his younger brother since the age of !4! is obviously going to be extremely protective/codependant of/with Sam, both because of the parentification and the words of his father carved into his very being. As for Sam, having Dean be all those things for him, means that more than anything, Dean is it for him because Dean RAISED HIM. Which is why, for so many reasons, what John said to Dean (killing Sam), was one of the most cruel things he could have done. John if not straight out, on some level knows that Dean and Sam will forever have a different dynamic because Dean raised Sam, ergo, Dean being more of a Parent to Sam than he ever was.

That’s not to say I think Dean was a “perfect parent” to Sam when he was raising him. No one can be “perfect” especially not a teenager raising his baby brother. What it means is that Dean had to sacrifice his childhood and grow up quickly for Sam to be not only Alive, but also so that Sam could -have- a childhood. All of this while Dean was still actively growing up, enduring his father, hunting, and having to come to terms with monsters. But he couldn’t allow himself to mess up, and going back to the idea of “perfect parenting” we see that no, he in fact was never “perfect” specifically when he leaves so that he can play games, and he sees that Sam’s safety is (extremely unfairly) placed on his shoulders. All of this, yet again along side with never having a stable home, having an unreliable source of income, and having to basically learn how to be an adult at 7, was the start of their dynamic.

As for Sam, we see that he got to play on soccer teams, go to school, and exist (while still having to endure all of the nightmares that is his homelife) outside of the hunting. Whereas Dean was the one who gave him this chance. This is not to say that Sam should ever feel guilt over this, or that Dean needed to do this. This is to show just how different their sibling relationship is, due to the trauma.

Dean treats Sam like a brother many times, but underneath it (or on top) you will always see that he is a parent to him more than anything.

“Wincest” is talking about their “strange/codependant relationship” in a romantic or purely sexual manner. This in itself just shows how many people don’t understand what it means to either have a kid or be a parentified older sibling. (I personally am not a parentified older sibling, but my sister who practically raised me is) and because of MY family dynamic I can speak from experience (definitely not to Dean and Sam’s extent) of having a parentified older sibling, and how that differs from regular sibling relationships.

Ok, this was a ramble, but as a whole “wincest” is extremely disturbing to me as a whole. And I don’t know what the rules are on this specific topic, so Idk how much I should say. But I definitely don’t condone inc*st to any degree, but to each their own ig.

Alright, I have SO much more to say on this topic. But I will hold back for now, just because I am sleepy.

XOXO

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fairybonesandstardust · 2 months

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i saw someone say “you weren’t mature for your age you were a child” and i never emotionally recovered

#it reminds me of hunter (and nico a little bit)#technically percy bc he was thirteen having to tell a child that his sister died #percy jackon and the olympians #percy jackson #hunter the golden guard #hunter the owl house #nico di angelo #this is so will coded my poor baby 😭#will solace #pjo #hunter toh #the owl house #txt post #bittersweet #loss of innocence #growing up too fast

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the-healing-mindset · 2 months

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You don't always have to be the hero, you know? I am sorry if there were times in your life, especially when you were younger, where you had to be the one to save the day because the adults in your life were not doing their part. You did not deserve that.

You assumed a role that was not even yours to assume. Sure, you did a great job at it, and it made you into the person you are today by giving you some admirable qualities, but assuming that role also broke you.

Taking on that responsibility made you feel like nothing was outside of your realm of care. You always feel like you need to be the one to take on what other people seem to be ignoring. In some cases, yes, that works. However, most of the time, that is something that only makes us more stressed and anxious. Especially if there are many things going on that we feel like we need to be in control of.

However, this does not mean that you need to be the villain either. It is perfectly fine and normal just to be neutral. Focusing on your life and letting the rest be. I know it's difficult after having to take the lead for so long, but you deserve to make your life what you want it to be.

#life #living #reminder #gentle reminder #healing #recovery #growth #responsibility #personal responsibility #trauma #childhood trauma #growing up too fast

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hellsbroadcaster · 27 days

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CALLING IT A NIGHT CUZ IM TIRED AND I WANNA LAY DOWN. But look at kitty !!! He’s walking and playing !! 😭😭😭

#gROWING UP TOO FAST #⌜off the air⌟ . // ooc #also my legs jumpscare sorry 😧

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inksplashgirl · 9 months

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goodbye

Bye is sad

But it’s a

Good

Bye.

I will miss you, friend

But I know it’s for the best

And I let you go

With all the bittersweet goodness

I can give you.

I loved- love- you like my sister.

But it’s time for goodbye.

So go, best friend.

I’m sorry it wasn’t meant to last

But I’m glad we had some time and

I hope it’s more good than bye.

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thatgrrlpoet · 2 months

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Listen: A Poem About Growing Up To Fast

Listen

I was just a kid

That day at the park

When it was dark

My head hurt

It reeled

My feelings were seeled

But now they are open

The things I saw

The things I did

The scars left on me

My mind

The things I come to find

I wasn't supposed to see that

I wasn't supposed to do that

I was just a kid

#original poem #poetry #deep thoughts #depressing shit #depression poetry #feel better #if you see this i hope you have a good day #my writing #poem #poems on tumblr #growing up #growing up too fast

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incorrectkakashi · 1 year

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kakashi: bitches b like “im baby” but have childhood trauma and neglect like wtf do u know about being baby u were forced to grow up from an early age anyways I’m bitches

#kakashi hatake #kakashi #incorrect quotes #childhood trauma #neglect #baby #growing up too fast #naruto anime

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audreyrose7 · 16 days

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Having a traumatic childhood really freaking sucks, you spend all your time in survival mode and you don't actually learn who You are or what you're doing, you spend all your time as a kid being an adult essentially, and then when you're an adult you realize how sad it was that you never got to be a kid. It sucks!

#healing #childhood trauma #trauma #survival mode #growing up too fast

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valencia-rou · 8 months

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Im no peter pan

"what if i fall, oh but darling what if you fly" they say.

But what if i just want to stay?

What if right now, right here is where i want to be?

I know the world wont stop spinning for me.

I don't want to fall even less to fly, cant i just stay on the edge, for now?

Growing up is really scarring me somehow.

But im no peter pan,

I can't stop what already began.

I don't want it to stop,

I do wanna grow up.

I just want to pause for a while and look around,

Maybe then I'll be ready to grow up, and not feel so drowned.

But ive never been to Neverland and, i am no lost boy,

Im just a kid who grew up too fast, trying to find some joy.

f. .

#f. .#poem #growing up #sad poem #sad thoughts #growing up too fast #stop please #the lost boys #peter pan #help #fuck life

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superkitty4789 · 25 days

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My idea as to who the 6 main characters from digital circus were before they got taken to the circus. AU thingy

Part 2

Ragatha

I headcanon Ragatha as the eldest daughter of a single mom. When Ragatha was 7, her mom had quintuplets. Being a single mom in a run-down and conservative area, her mom freaked out. Ragatha had to help out with her siblings at every opportunity. Family stopped by to help now and again, but she still needed to help. Ragatha grew up very fast and started putting others' needs before her own. One day, she found the headset for real cheap and decided to buy herself something. One 'selfish' act wouldn't hurt... right?

#tadc ragatha #angst #the amazing digital circus #headcanon #growing up too fast

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batmobilestires · 9 months

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Jason went from being a lil lanky boy to a super buff man to what practically felt like overnight for him and there’s just no way that missing such an important stage of physical development didn’t negatively impact his body image. like imagine you’re just a kid and suddenly waking up feeling too big for your own body??

in desperate need of an angsty fanfic that explores Jason’s body image issues because of the Lazarus Pit!! and bonus points if there’s a happy ending with Bruce hugging Jason and telling him “he’ll never be too big to be his son” (im delusional)

#jason todd #bruce wayne #lazarus pit #body image issues #growing up too fast #hurt/comfort #plot for sale #kid jason todd #resurrected jason todd #jason todd angst #the league of assassins #bruce wayne is a good dad #batman #robin #red hood #bruce and jason #angst #dc

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circusd0g · 2 years

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have you ever had the experience of always being your mother's emotional support? do you want me to tell you how it feels?

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- "i grew up faster than other kids; i didn't need a stupid stuffed toy..! [...] please look at me! please mama,"

- people always ask me how i got so good at comforting hugs. i've had practice.

- and she turned me into a therapist, "for her," she said. well, she got her venting space. and i got cheated out of my childhood.

- she calls me "her bitch (/aff)". i'm just the only one who put in effort to listen, to understand, and i deal with that decision every day.

- "a fifteen year old shouldn't be this wise," she says. like she wasn't one of the reasons why i am.

- i remember the day i realized how the world actually worked. i was about six and three quarters, i believe. i was watching Go Diego Go, eating animal crackers that tasted odd, on a tray/plate. i remember looking at the TV, placed on our white, wooden entertainment center, when it dawned on me. everything we have, it all costs something. whatever we do, we have to pay for it. nothing is truly for free. i knew in that moment, i had to pay my parents back for raising me and my siblings. to pay them, i needed a job. to get a good job, i had to go to school, preferably college. i had to know my plan as soon as possible, to get started as soon as possible. it hit me like a gaping hole in my chest; this dread and overwhelming sense of despair. why?

#irl posting #vent #tw vent #vent post #childhood trauma #mommy issues #trauma #therapist friend #growing up too fast

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software-instxbility · 1 year

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It’s not really that i still feel like a 12-14yo, it’s just that i already had to be 18 as a kid

I was so advanced that actually/finally reaching the age i had to act like make me feel like i didn’t age, because i already acted like an adult as a preteen

I’m not an age regressor, I’m a Tall Child

#actually mentally ill #actually traumatized #actually abused #emotional abuse #traumatic childhood #narcissistic mother #child abuse #child parentification #child neglect #and i was so young when i behaved 25 #that kind of thing #it's mental illness innit #growing up too fast #what growing up with unrestricted internet and no parental love does to a mf #cptsd #agere #age regression #vent tag #vent post

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paigeypaige19 · 3 months

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In his manner he seemed a little too grown-up for his age—already displaying anger and resentment toward the world. - The Whisper Man, Alex North

#the whisper man #alex north #book quotes #lit quotes #quotes #thrillers #thriller books #mystery book #growing up too fast #anger #resentment #life quotes

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