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strawb3rryangelw · 18 hours

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pnkhalo · 2 days

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#black women #black girl aesthetic #melanin #black girl magic #black it girl #it girl #black Barbie #black princess #black femininity #black is beautiful #fashion #black fashion #feminine

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dangeroustaintedflawed · 11 hours

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honeytonedhottie · 3 days

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HOT GIRL SUMMER⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍹

hot girl summer is officially here and its the perfect time to have lots of fun and make rly amazing memories, while also feeling and looking ur best ✨ AND continuing to pursue ur goals while doing it.

THE RULES ;

in order to have a hot girl summer there are rules that need to be set in order to ensure that u have fun in a safe manner that aligns with ur goals and who u are as a person. MY hot girl summer rules are

dont put urself in situations that are compromising to ur safety or the safety of ur friends (look out for each other)

try ur best to keep moving and doing things with ur time

be social and HAVE FUN (dont ruin ur own fun)

if u didn't document it, it does NOT count (take lots of photos)

i dont have a LOT of rules for my hot girl summer, i just put those in place bcuz i wanna make sure that i have the most memorable and enjoyable summer that i can.

THE PREP ;

we should be preparing for our hot girl summer. to be helpful and just for funsies, to help you feel your most confident and radiant this summer ✨. if i were to break down the most important things to prep for hot girl summer they’d be ur base (skin + body) ur company, and ur wardrobe.

BASE ;

moisturize ur skin after your showers while your skin is still slightly damp. for moisturized and soft skin this summer

if ur not already using sunscreen on your face AND body then what are you even doing? get in the habit of putting sunscreen on ur body to promote a smooth and even skin tone and protect u from the sun ofc

get into a solid workout regimen that u can be consistent with. focus on building ur body to perfection! work out as much as u want, i recommend 3-4 times a week.

my recommendations for soft skin is to use an african net sponge bcuz that always gets me CLEAN. also, use african black soap for glowy skin and use shea butter on ur body while ur skin is still slightly damp.

not only does it smell yummy but it rly REALLY moisturizes you well. i also recommend using it during the summer bcuz the glow that u get from it is REAL 🌺🍹

i’ve elaborated on sunscreen in the bullet points already so let’s go to body building. get into a workout regimen 3-4 times a week. i’ll share some workouts here depending on what u want.

the important thing is that you start NOW so that then by the time it’s summer your gains will be visible and you’ll feel stronger and more confident -> therefore more happy and prepped for ur hot girl summer.

use body scrubs to exfoliate skin and also promote optimal softness bcuz in the summer it’ll be hot and you might wanna show some skin

WARDROBE ;

get onto ur pinterest and start looking for inspo for your summer wardrobe that coincides with ur personal style. use ur fashion binder if u have one to start formulating and thinking of outfits.

create a list of specific pieces that ur looking for (with photos if u can) so that when ur shopping/thrifting u know to get what u want for summer.

the important things for summer from my own fashion binder are bikinis, camisoles and mini skirts + shorts. bcuz i wrote that in my fashion binder i’ll look for and buy those specific clothing pieces for my summer wardrobe. do the same ✨

COMPANY ;

it’s more fun when u spend some parts of ur summer with quality company so make sure to prepare that NOW so that then ur plans go smoothly in the summertime.

make sure to have a list of things/activities that u wanna do this summer either alone or with company. and make plans according to that bcuz ur not about to be cooped up all summer, unless thats what u want ig.

now is the time to test the waters and propose ideas with ur friends about what u guys should do together this summer. maybe it’s simply hanging out, or going on a sort of vacation together.

whatever it is, make sure that ur company is not only reliable/responsible but also that they have ur best interest at heart bcuz it’s gonna be hot girl summer and everyone’s gonna be out there 😭 u need someone to have ur back and someone that you can trust.

THE INSPO/MOOD ;

skin is so glossy and smooth it almost looks wet. warm beaches and fruit platters. swimming like EVERYDAY, cruises and shopping sprees and vacations. dinners with ur girls, summer romances. natural yet so ethereal.

SUMMER FASHION LINK ;

i've already made a post that talked about summer wardrobe essentials and its linked right here. but the gist is that summer is all about vibrant colors and skin and shimmer.

PLAYLIST ;

for a proper hot girl summer u absolutely MUST have a proper hot girl summer playlist. the top songs on my summer playlist are jump by tyla, and the 250 remix of attention by newjeans. make sure that u formulate a couple playlists for summer because the music is what makes the season.

PRODUCTS AND ESSENTIALS ;

for the summertime i gravitate towards products that are more tropical and fruity which is a juxtaposition to what i usually smell like. cuz im a vanilla cupcake/strawberry poundcake scented girlie. but in the summer i kind of like to smell like a refreshing cocktail instead.

body shimmer

moisturizing lip oils

cute claw clips

mini fan that u can take in ur purse

thick body butters

a swimsuit on hand

some products that i recommend to achieve that scent are the bronzed coconut products from victorias secret pink, along with strawberry and champagne and fruit crush. the ulta beauty smoothie shower gels r also rly good. lastly bodycology has some great summer scents.

last but not least i rly hope that u guys prioritize having fun this summer and being the embodiment of beauty and confidence that GLOWS. stay safe and have an amazing hot girl summer ✨

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disgustedlyscattereddd · 2 days

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ultraviolencebitch76 · 3 days

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last night i took three edibles and decided to express myself

pls credit if you repost. this is my life’s work.

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zzzzzestforlife · 2 days

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@zzzzzestforlife's help & advice masterlist 🧠💕🌸

just think of me as your internet big sister and "help yourself" to the links below 😉

📮asks

lifestyle

💖 how to stop procrastinating and make that dream life yours

🗃️ how to get organized to achieve your goals

📱 productivity app recs

🏡 when you're "still" living with your parents

🌷 easy wins & non-negotiables

🔋 how to manage your energy throughout the day

langblr

🇰🇷 how i study korean

🇨🇳 fun chinese comprehensible input

🇯🇵 how to study japanese and chinese at the same time

career

💪 overcoming hardships

👗 summer professional outfit ideas

💻 coding projects for beginners

✒️ posts

lifestyle

💤 the best night routine start in the morning

✅ done is better than perfect

💕 practical daily habits + affirmations for high-energy productivity

🌊 mindset reset / affirmation for taking control of your life

❤️‍🩹 practical ways to forgive yourself

📓 what no one tells you about how to journal

🌻 5 ways to wake yourself up in under 5 minutes

studies

💯 That Girl exam success checklist

😌 post-exam healing recipe

career

👩‍💻 how to run your life like a well-organized engineering sprint

♀️ being a woman in tech

😳 overcoming overwhelm at work

✌️ working student's survival guide

❤️ how to fall in love with your job

📊 preparing for an important presentation

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agirlwithglam · 22 hours

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unique compliments to give people <3

because ordinary compliments are just.. ordinary. have some fun with these <3

i love your personality

you give off main character vibes

you're literally an inspiration

being around you makes me feel happy

you have such amazing manners

you're the type of person my mother/ father/ family member would like.

i love how you're so independent

you're like such a girlboss

i love you're style

you remind me of: [favourite actor/ person/ celebrity + tell them why]

You make me feel safe and loved

I love your energy

You have a pretty smile

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lilico7p · 12 hours

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Yves Saint Lauren season 1999

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ultraviolencesaints · 15 hours

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forever angels ˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡˚ ❀

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girlbloggerinterrupted222 · 3 days

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cherisigloo · 21 hours

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just a girl and her big, sad brown eyes against the world

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ash-says · 2 days

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Tips on how to dodge personal questions in a Professional Setting:

I know. I know. I said I will be on a break and I still stand by that but it was difficult to throw away the sudden surge of motivation so here I am.

I received a request to make a post on this long back so here is your girl serving it. Honestly I am not much of an expert at it either but I have some ways that work sometimes so here goes nothing.

1) Do not give in to the pressure.

Literally that's the starting point. Whenever someone asks us a personal question we feel obligated at some level to answer because of xyz reasons. That's why we first need to escape the pressure of answering.

2) Straightforwardly and Politely state I am not comfortable answering that.

The bulletproof method. No explanation needed.

3) If you are in a situation where the person is being really nosy and can't take a no for an answer. Try saying to them,"I don't understand how it's relevant to our topic of discussion."

4) If you are not in a position to decline at all which happens when the person asking the question is of higher authority and has influence in this situation give vague answers that lead nowhere.

Example: So are you dating anyone?

It's tough to say in particular you know the dating scene nowadays it's difficult to put a name on anything.

Or what do you do on your weekends?

Nothing just the usuals. I am an office worker after all.

This creates a sense of familiarity with the crowd but at the same time does not reveal anything in precision.

5) Turn the topic on them. One of the smartest things you can do is make them the central focus. People love to talk about themselves so it works most of the time until you come across someone truly smart.

Example: hey how's the new office? Are you liking it here?

Ans: Well I am still getting used to the environment here. What about you? How long have you been working here?

6) Another thing you can do is dance around the topic but not on the topic. You remember how you used to write a 1 mark question for 5 marks exactly like that. Tell the prequel and sequel of the question but never answer the exact question.

7) This one is kinda rude I won't suggest doing it around randomly but if you have been in the corporate space for sometime you would know that there are some people who like to ask things only to belittle you or spread gossip or to be mean. The jealous ones that don't have a life of their own.

In case they ask something or say something rude or cross a boundary just start singing a song or change the topic completely. Don't acknowledge anything they say and continue with your random talks or humming. Trust me it's the easiest way to get rid of them.

Still some are persistent and will try to get an answer. Simply say it's not worth discussing. It's boring.

8) Apart from that there are subtle things you can do which can create a persona that conveys you are not open towards personal questions. You can do it by simply detaching yourself whenever someone starts talking about their personal lives. Don't be a participant or a listener. It gives a que you are not looking to bond personally and many other similar things.

9) If you are truly in a toxic work culture where your colleagues seem to constantly bug and bully you to share personal stuff (happened with me in my previous workplace) Firmly state,"I come here to work not to make personal relations."

10) Ignore.

I hope it helps even a little there's not much we can do without offending the other person but we can be gentle and polite in our tone and gesture that's the only way.

That's all for today's show on ash-says. Stay tuned for more illegal tricks and explosive opinions.

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honeytonedhottie · 2 days

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are u still obsessed with the 3D?⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍭

DONT OVER-COMPLICATE THINGS ;

instead of stressing about when you should and shouldn’t stress the 3D, channel your energy into your mental diet instead. worrying about how often you should/shouldn’t check the 3d will only hold you back because you're thinking about things that don’t matter.

checking for results in the 3d implies a future and a possibility that u might not get what u want, which is ABSURD. instead, focus on the present. you already have your desires and your results because creation is finished.

STOP CHASING ;

if you go chasing for results, that implies that you don’t have them yet leaving you feeling doubtful and obsessed with not having what you want. and that's not hot. remember, you are GOD.

if you observe or experience something in the 3d that's unfavorable, you can simply say “no it doesn’t look like that, it is what I tell it to be.” that’s how you learn to tell the 3d no because the law never fails. your only task is to persist and the 3d has no choice but to catch up and reflect the new story that YOU created.

WHY U DONT HAVE TO IGNORE THE 3D ;

for a lot of people it can be difficult to disassociate with and ignore the 3d completely because that's what we have to live with everyday. you don’t need to ignore the 3d, you just need to change how you react to it. so say no to what you don’t like, it’s YOUR reality after all. how you react to the 3d showcases growth that you’ve made in becoming a master mind.

think of reality as clay and you are the sculptor. reality is malleable like clay and you mold it to your will each and every day. the 3D is nothing but a dead mirror showing u your past assumptions, once the 4D is changed then the 3D will follow u just have to decide and persist.

AN ACTIVITY ;

practice telling the 3d no when you don’t like something, and affirm only in the present tense as though you have it NOW instead of trying to obtain something. 🍦💕