The real reason Valentino doesn't go to overlord meetings.

qpp that apologizes a lot x qpp that reassures them that it's okay (they take turns doing this)

<3

Love my friends wish I could live under their beds so I could bite their ankles once in a while

gotham city AU time

i had an idea of drawing something

bonus:

btw the art on top was inspired by a joker & batman art, basically this one:

(by @/sofussy_ on instagram)

This is something that I was curious on others' opinions on, since I don't think I've seen anyone else express this sentiment- i don't think qprs and romantic relationships necessarily need to be mutually exclusive? I've seen a few people express worry about their qprs "becoming" other relationships- and while that is possible, it doesn't necessarily need to mean that it stops being a qpr entirely?

I like to think of it like this: a platonic relationship can become romantic but that doesn't necessarily mean you stop being friends- lots of people say their romantic partners are also their best friend- and that relationship moving further into a sexual relationship doesn't negate the past two. To me, qprs are a separate relationship type that I can mix and match just like any of the others, so some of my queerplatonic relationships are also romantic- the two relationship labels just cover separate areas of our relationship as a whole. The queerplatonic elements didn't go away, and some other solely romantic relationships I've been in didn't include the same things as my qprs.

Of course, relationships can change, your feelings towards someone can change over time and certain labels just don't fit anymore. But I was curious if this is a "just me" train of thought or something. I tend to be entirely abnormal when it comes to relationships and understanding how they work for other people (autism, aroace, poly, etc, you know)

i absolutely agree! i don't see why the label can't be used with others

Alastor: “Now, let’s talk about literally anything else please!”

Me: “Good! Cause I don’t know where you went so I can’t go further with this!😂”

Flashback to that one moment where it felt like I'd found an aroace cheatcode on life somehow

Who cooks better

another silly joke with them

and when I go, I spoil it all by saying somethin' stupid like — I love you.

Something that often scared aspec people is being left out in the cold when all our friends eventually find partners and start families and it leaves us feeling so unimportant and like we always come second place.

But this...

It shows how capable of perseverance platonic love is. It only needs to be strong enough. People can love their best friends just as much as their families. And it can be beautiful. To see this as an aspec person gives me so much hope for the future, I hope rtd knows how much this finale means to so many ace and aro people

my best friend/fiancé and i have been together for over 20 years, we both love Studio Ghibli and i wanted to make a few pieces to celebrate our upcoming queer platonic wedding 💕 (she’s pan/polyam and cis, i’m aro/ace and nonbinary)

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qpp that talks really fast until their words start mixing together like a domino row falling x qpp who understands them perfectly

<3

People assume queer platonic relationships are on a straight line from friendship to romance, but actually from a non-linear, non subjective viewpoint, it’s more like a big ball of wibbly wobbly, feelingsy weelingsly… stuff.

can someone make a QPR dating app please. please i'm begging you. it isn't enough to just have a "find a friend" app because every time i try one the person i'm talking to ends up either catching feelings or being REALLY weird about it when they find out i'm aro.

"but you'll die alone!" and you will not live to see it; you will die by my sword before death takes me.

💕Can you even CONCEIVE how much I suddenly love them???💕

I think they were strolling around town after having a drink together. And that ends in a little cuddle!😂💕💕💕

Dialogue from The Aristocats, of course.💗💗💗