INTJ : The calm and affirmative
INTJs have this annoyingly calm demeanor that perceives everything will be alright.
A plan fails? It's a learning experience.
You did not achieve your goal? It's still part of the stepping stone towards better progress.
You overlooked the details? Then it will be considered the next time.
Do we think we're better than you? Hardly! INTJs are just competent and we trust completely in our skills and intellect.
Do we want to be better than everyone else? Well, we can't really lie about that category however it barely scratches the surface of our sense of purpose, integrity, and philosophy...
If we think we have things, actions, habits, etc. to improve for necessary means--as we see fit, we simply will.
Keep an intj close and earn their trust... and you'll surely find yourself a valuable piece to their grand schemes in life. Per se, INTJs believe in equal exchange... trust that you won't be empty handed in any bargain.
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INTJs and affection
INTJs aren’t the mushy, lovey-dovey type. We value our independence, and even entering into a relationship can be a challenge for us. So, it’s important for our partners to understand that we aren’t naturally affectionate. What we appreciate more is their support in the relationship, opening up to us, and seeking our advice. These things help us build deeper connections and better understand each other, and of course, be more open to physical contact.
Speaking from my own experience as an INTJ woman, my love language revolves around quality time and acts of service. Physical touch is something I’m quite reserved about, and I have strict boundaries when it comes to who can touch me. Usually, friends and family aren’t allowed, it is very much reserved to my romantic partner. So if someone oversteps those boundaries, I tend to pull away and have a conversation about it.
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The INTJ urge to refer to babies as 'it', people as 'humans', and anyone you've known for a long time as 'The *insert name*'.
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Daily life with my ENFP sister #12?
(I'm INTJ btw)
So i showed her my lab
I am "like a real scientist" so she had to reference the realest of them all
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INTJ Lover
In a committed Relationship...
INTJs are definitely the type who'd tell their partner to shut up when they act cute and flirty.
Don't worry... they actually really like it. They just can't handle feeling giddy and they have difficulty wrapping their heads on how to respond to your affectionate advances. They're skimming the back of their head on how to best counter you. But they're failing miserably in this category. (They're INTJs afterall)
But if you're just starting dating or getting to know each other. Don't even try to win them with your flirting game. They'll cross you off their list without hesitation.
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something fun, my gf requirements as an INTJ woman:
-Taller than me which is very easy to meet considering i’m like 5’0
- Tattoos bc they’re hot
- Dominant personality
- Not shy
-i’m an introvert so an extrovert would bring me some nice balance to my life
- Very sweet and affectionate
-Has a passion and can talk for hours and hours about it
-MUST LOVE/LIKE VIDEO GAMES and i’m not talking about that animal crossing shit
-Must love/like horror
- i like readers
- No tunnel vision
- bonus points if she has muscles
- Doesn’t want children
- Likes trying new stuff…..
-Not boring, no small talk pls
- Likes heavy metal, and a lot of other ‘weird’ music
- More masculine than feminine but i’m okay with either one
- 21+ , no one younger than me
- dresses casual, none of that costume-y shit 😭
-Has a good sense of humor and ik i can laugh with her for hours
- Different cultural background is plus for me but i don’t necessarily care
-doesn’t use tiktok <3 omfffg if u don’t use tiktok ? Get in my bed rnnnn
- Private! I don’t need ur friends or random ppl knowing abt our personal issues ok
-GIVES ME SPACE. texting everyday is exhausting. I still luv u don’t worry <3
lmk if i’m picky yall
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CHILDFREE
People always assume that children and marriage are a packaged deal. Someone who doesn’t want children may still want marriage and vice versa. But it actually depends on the person.
As “weird” as it sounds, I want a committed relationship and maybe marriage for my future, without the need of kids. However, it seems like when I find a guy who is also child free, he also doesn’t want emotional commitment nor marriage.
I’ve noticed that most child free men are also marriage free and even commitment free. They’re usually fuck boys in disguise, who hide behind a mask of politeness and neatness, but just want to fuck around for the rest of their lives with no kids and no actual emotional commitment at all, let alone marriage.
It seems committed men who don’t want kids are REALLY hard to find.
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