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lolliepops-rox · 8 months

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This is my petition for people who create pins/stickers/other things with "she/they" & "he/they" to also include "she/he". I'm kind of sick of being excluded, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who feel the same.

#trans #transgender #genderfluid #bigender #nonbinary #non binary #multigender #polygender #pangender #she/he #he/she #pronouns #talking lollie #anyways. people should maybe share this around #kinda sick of going to cons & seeing my pronoun set excluded #and also everyone assuming all nb people use they/them in some form #particularly when other people try to correct either someone else or themself to they/them for me #like mate... ive literally never used they/them #she/her and he/him aint dirty. please dont act like it.

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genderqueerdykes · 24 days

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if you are a trans man or masc, masculine nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid or other gender non conforming identity, masc gay, a bear, a butch, stud, or boi, or other masculine queer person and don't feel welcome in any queer spaces, you're not alone.

the communities both irl and online have become EXTREMELY hostile toward mascs and men to the point of straight up excluding us and changing their wording to justify their violent exclusion. from renaming nonbinary spaces to "femme & them" and "she+" spaces, to telling men & mascs that they would "Scare" the women and "nonbinary" folks just by being there, as if masculinity and manhood are inherently traumatizing to be around.

masculine and male nonbinary folks have it so hard- most nonbinary spaces are almost definitely women's spaces who also conflate womanhood with nonbinaryhood, and often times just view nonbinary people as confused women. we are not inherently traumatizing to be around: masc enbies need places to go. we are still nonbinary and still trans and still queer for fucks' sake

nonbinary has never and will never mean femme or woman-adjacent inherently. nonbinary means what it means: people who don't or refuse to adhere to the gender binary, regardless of what side it is. masculinity is included in this, femininity is not the only way to be nonbinary.

masc queers do not have to bend over backwards to try to be more feminine and thus "less threatening" in order to have places to go. that's dysphoric and just inaccurate to a lot of queer folks' identity and presentation. it blows my mind because it makes no sense, anyway, even within the gay community, hypermasculinity has been present and even sought after by some people who find it very attractive, twunks, hunks, bears... but between the periods in queer history people started viewing masc gay leathermen and kinksters as the ones who were responsible for spreading AIDS and thus removing them from pride parades,

AND the lesbian separatism moment picking up to remove butches & male & masc lesbians from lesbian spaces identity, paving the way for modern rdical femniism, we've only entered a downhill landslide of hating men and mascs and ultimately trying to erase us from the queer community entirely.

the queer community is not the "women & femmes community". the queer experience is broad and vast, it includes a wide variety of masculine and male experiences, as well as genderfluid, multigender, completely ungendered and other gendered experiences. the lesbian, trans, bisexual, nonbinary, gay and general queer communities aren't the "safe place to hide from men & mascs community" like estranged rdfems and terfpilled trans folk like to tell you they are.

this is the QUEER community and it includes ALL forms of queerness, masc, femme, butch, male, neutral, bigender, neutral, and all. he/shes and he/hims and he/theys and he/its and so on are just as much of a part of this communities as she/hers and they/thems. you can't cast a blanket of "inherently abusive" over all men and mascs and one of "inherently abused/incapable of being abusive" over all women and femmes because that just traps you in a fantasy land that doesn't exist AND it prevents mascs and men from getting the help, resources and community they NEED.

men & mascs are hurt and abused by women & femmes every day and we refuse to speak about them because we live under a white cisheteronormal patriarchy and have complaints about how that functions. the complaints are legitimate but assuming that all men and mascs are oppressing all women and femmes and that women can never be oppressive is a false as hell narrative that actively damages people.

enough is enough. this mindset is hurting people. it's leaving masc and male queers to be estranged, harmed and even dead. i care about you if you're being affected by this mentality and these behaviors. you deserve community, safety, and a sense of belonging, you do belong, even if we struggle to form our own spaces due to unjust hatred. we will do our best to band together and keep each other safe. we must

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recovering-vamp · 2 months

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#cryptidart #fat character #fat positive #lesbian #witcher ttrpg #Alina #she/he #Alina spoilers #trying to learn to draw burn scarring better #CW scars

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lgbtq-userboxes · 2 months

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paperuniverse · 6 months

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Note: I did not make this poll because of a specific person or situation, I have just noticed I’m more often called they/them than my preferred pronouns and wanted to see if it was the same for other people who use she/he pronouns

#paperuniverse post #polls #pronouns #gender #nonbinary #trans #multigender #she/he #last post reminded me of this draft

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rouge-the-bat · 8 months

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when i see someone switch between she and he pronouns for one person/character in a sentence

#ive had this image saved for years #itll always be the best #she/her and he/him pronouns for me individually r okay but if its specifically she/he and its switched a lot? now THATS where its at #he/her #she/him #she/he #jester whos pronouns are she/he/he :3 #he/she

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mogai-sunflowers · 7 months

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she/her + he/him femme flag!

femme she/he or he/she flag-

[Image ID: A flag with nine equally-sized horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colors are purple, blue, pastel red-orange, red-pink, medium purple-pink, red-pink, pastel red-orange, pink, and purple. End ID.]

flag by me, requested by no one! tagging @radiomogai and @corax-blackwolf :3

#my flags #reigns flags #new flag #mogai flag #new mogai flag #she/he #he/she #she/he pronouns #he/she pronouns #femme #🌌a star is born ; coining🌌

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tooshnado · 5 months

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quit calling me androgynous. i need something fresher, something cooler. only answering to shit like ‘her royal guyness’ or ‘fairy godfather’ now

#androgyne #androgyne pride #androgynous #he/she #she/he #gettin a little funky with it #sparkle on its wednesday #average tooshnado wednesday

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feitan-cl · 10 months

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Can we make the transdar a thing? Like the gaydar but with the trans umbrella

My friend just came out as a demi-boy (he/she) and i somehow knew before that he was going to end up being not-cis

her way of coming out to me (because im stupid and didnt see his pfp) was by a meme she sent me which was about our friendship:

And the he sent another one saying it was even more like us:

(he's the only person I've came out as enby so i really appreciated it)

And i realized i was FUCKING RIGHT (as i always am)

Anyways im so happy for her

And for everyone who needs it:

If you're struggling (and wanting) to come out, remember that you are not alone, there will be people by your side, and if they abandon you they're complete shitheads, dont give up, be who you are, be proud, be happy, be yourself <3

Btw if you're a trans person wanting to come out you can start by slowly changing your pronouns on your bio and telling someone you are completely sure won't judge you

Remember: you don't owe coming out to anyone, and again, be happy

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jazzyfrog · 6 months

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CHAT I GOT PRONOUN PINS

#pronouns #she/her #he/him #she/him #he/her #he/she #she/he #androgynous #agender #agenderflux

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jaylovesriddussy · 2 years

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And they’re both trans pt.2

Ft. Genderqueer Ed Nygma in her dress

#Edward Nygma #the riddler #riddler #Gotham #gender queer #she/he #he/she pronouns #trans #riddlebird #nygmobblepot

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genderqueerdykes · 10 months

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love being a trans guy with two names… one name uses she/he pronouns and the other uses he/she pronouns. both are men. joy to the world

JOY TO THE WORLD!!! I LOVE THIS

#asks #answers #my gender is #she/he #he/she #trans guy #trans boy #trans man #trans men #names

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recovering-vamp · 2 months

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#cryptidart #fat character #lesbian #fat positive #witcher ttrpg #Alina #Alina spoilers #she/he #CW scars

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candy8448 · 5 months

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Bigenderfluid rambles (aka: my gender journal)

My rambles and feelings about gender (Because ill clog up rambles masterlist with this stuff otherwise)

Update: i now have a bigender community blog @yourbigendergremlet where i will be posting all my gender rambles from now on, only my big rambles will go on here!